Dating: 5 good tips that will save you wasting your time

Ok , now I confess: I think I’ve watched the movie He’s Just Not That Into You at least 50 times in the last month. I fell into the nostalgia ben stiff!

No, but admit that this film is a real little gem. Yes, it’s cheesy as hell – we’re going to give Caesar what’s his – but it’s filled with inspiring messages of empowerment and situations that are so real, although unfortunately it only includes heterosexual issues… Of course, the film also aged badly in some ways.

But the reason why I like this film so much is for all the little semi-philosophical/semi-slap in the face advice it evokes and which “wakes us up” a little. Although social media has really evolved since the film (2009), the relationship issues today are the same : lack of communication , fear of judgment, lack of confidence in oneself and in others, etc.

tips that will save you wasting your timeSo here are my top 5 key phrases from the movie , which you need to slip into your back pocket starting today.

1. A person who doesn’t care about you or gives you a modicum of affection doesn’t mean they’re interested.

Don’t mistake a person who is half invested for a person who really cares about you. Shade.

2. If someone wants to see you, they’ll act on it.

Self-investment doesn’t have to be forced. Too often we try to maintain a relationship that leads nowhere. It’s easy to impair our own judgment and let the emotional take over the rational. Thank u, next .

3. Your time is precious, don’t let anyone waste it.

We should not see people who are not interested in us as a personal attack. On the contrary, it is almost a gift. There is nothing better than knowing that we are investing our time in the right place, and with the right people.

4. One person who isn’t interested in you is nothing compared to all the people who are.

We often have our head in the sand when we fixate on the same person who is wronging us. We prevent ourselves from seeing all the beauty around. It is better to take time for yourself than to waste it with someone who does not consider you worthy. Bye, Felicia !

5. Be honest with yourself: stop finding reasons to cover up your self-destructive actions.

Facing the reality of a situation can seem scary. We try to find a cause for everything. Sometimes there is absolutely no reason. We must stop torturing ourselves for nothing!

10 naughty sex toys and products to use alone or as a couple

Whether you’re alone or in a couple , there’s always time to stock up on sex toys … just to be sure to meet all your needs!

naughty sex toysAre you looking to boost your libido, satisfy yourself solo or spice up your relationship ? All the reasons are good. And the good news is that there are tons of options out there that can kick your sex life up a notch (whether you have a partner or not)!

To help you, we have unearthed a selection of erotic products sold online that are worth the detour, for all budgets and all tastes. Here are 10 naughty products and sex toys to use alone or accompanied that will give you a lot of pleasure.

1. Clitoral stimulator

Adam & Eve

A small discreet vibrator, which slips on a finger. To use solo or with a partner during masturbation!Finger vibrator, Adam & Eve – $34.90

2. Jack Rabbit Jazz Vibrator

The Bay

This powerful vibrator features dual stimulation and has 6 vibration modes. As a bonus, it is water resistant so can be used in the bath!

Jazz Bunny Vibrator, The Bay – $54.99

3. Rose Shaped Sucking Vibrator


This suction vibrator recreates the sensations of oral sex. This little contraption will do wonders under the sheets, we promise.

Rose Shaped Sucking Vibrator, Amazon – $21.99

4. Chrorus Dual Stimulation Vibrator

The Bay

A little massage for your clitoris and your G-spot ? It’s possible with this vibrator that hugs the curves of your anatomy.

Adjustable by means of a remote control, this sex toy is perfect for couples. While the vibrator is inside you, your partner can adjust the intensity to their liking.

Chorus couples vibrator, The Bay – $229.00

5. Womanizer clitoral stimulator

The Bay

The technology of this Womanizer brand device has been designed to arouse more than 8,000 clitoral nerve endings. The toy offers the perfect balance of air pressure, suction and massage sensations.

Psst! This little gem has 14 levels of intensity…a significant detail!

Womanizer clitoral suction vibrator, The Bay – $219.00

6. French Lover Vibrator

The Bay

If you love oral caresses, you can now take care of it all by yourself! The French Lover vibrator is aptly named because it mimics the sensation of cunnilingus and will have your toes flexing in pleasure. Good chills!

Vi-Curious The French Lover Vibrator, The Bay – $75.00

7. A naughty dice game


Simple and effective, this naughty dice game will certainly awaken sexual pleasure in your couple. What a great way to break the routine!

Fun Dice Game for Couples, Amazon – $12.89

8. Edible Massage Oil


For sensual massages, you need a good oil to spread over the body. Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil contains, among other things, hemp seeds, vitamin E, almond and grapeseed oil. It leaves the skin hydrated, while offering sweet, naughty occasions… that could end up in the heat of the moment!

Edible Watermelon Massage Oil, Amazon – $26.99

9. Lubricantwater-based


In life, you need lubricant in your little secret drawer for more comfort and pleasure during your explorations. Lubilicious Lubricant is warming and cooling at the same time, but has no numbing agents…so you will feel every part of your body as it should. In addition, it is safe for condoms. WE love!

Lubilicious Water-Based Personal Lubricant, Amazon – $24.99

10. Massage candle


This candle from C & C Candle Company is a perfect blend of natural waxes and provides a wonderful sensual massage. In addition, it is made in Canada and is poured by hand.

C&C Strawberry & Champagne Massage Candle, Amazon – $24.99